I bought a 6310i a couple of weeks ago, i have always had nokia phones (4110, 3210, 8210). The main reason for picking the 6310i was the bluetooth. Although i didn't initally want to access the web via the phone the nokia software offers other useful tools. And in the future email access.
So i bought a Sitecom USB bluetooth adapter (39.99) with no inclination that it was not compatible with the software. Intial trouble with the sitecom software was soon sorted and i could setup an internet connection, but only that. As i have now found out no matter how much i was trying to get the nokia software to work i would have been wasting my time.
So i called Orange and they don't support bluetooth, sell it but no support, they suggested that i try IR or cable, but my Sony Vaio GR214MP does not have an IR port or Serial port! so the cable is out as well.
I have found the Socket CF card and PCMCIA adapter on expansys.com for 135.00 which is to much for my pocket.
The problem is totally with the nokia software and i feel that it would be a very generous gesture from nokia to make available a version that allows to use of any bluetooth device be it USB, Built in, PCI and PCMCIA.
As they say the ball is in Nokia's Court!