I have tried getting my Bluetooth USB Dongle Mitsumi WIF-0402C working with PC Suite - No Go !

I bought a Infra Red USB Dongle, BF-120 V6102F from Maplins - No Go ?

I tried buying a old Nokia version - Can't find one !

Surely someone somewhere can suggest a device that happily connects my Win2K machine to my phone so I can sync ?

The phone was bought as being able to do this but it can't - Surely that's deception ? - I feel cheated ! - There must be an answer ?