Could anybody supply me with step by step instructions for how to connect the phone to a Windows machine running the Bluetooth stack included with XP SP2?

Currently when I try to run it, it correctly finds the computer in a list of available bluetooth devices, but when I select the computer name it gives me a traceback, the last line of which reads:

File "E:\System\Apps\Pyhton\my\", line 41 in ?
socket.error2, 'No such file or directory')

Can anybody tell me what I'm doing wrong?